Once you and your guy get to know each other well, in and out of the bedroom, some of the excitement can fade and you may enter a bit of a rut.
Your sex life can become stale if you keep doing the same thing over and over, but you can spice things up easily, adding variety, anticipation, excitement and fun to your sex life using some really really fun and dirty sex games.
You don’t have to do something crazy every single night. Every once in a while is enough to keep things interesting.
- PLAY WITH HOT AND COLD
Blindfold your man, and have him lay down on the bed. Go to the kitchen to prepare a drink of hot water mixed with honey and a glass of water filled with ice cubes. Bring both glasses into the bedroom, and place them on the nightstand.
Your guy is blindfolded because you want this to be a surprise. Play with his penis, and bring it into your mouth as you normally would when giving him a blow job.
But then stop.
Take a sip of the hot water and honey drink. Don’t swallow all of it; leave a little in your mouth as you take him inside your mouth again. Surprise! Before he gets too excited, stop what you’re doing, suck on an ice cube, and take him in again. Another … Surprise! Do this for only a few seconds, and switch back to the warmth.
Keep switching things up as long as you like for this hot and cold game.
- THE LOLLIPOP LICK
You know what guys think of when girls lick lollipops, don’t you?
Well, use that to your advantage with this dirty sex game. Unwrap a lollipop, and start licking it in front of your guy. Then tell him to wait for one minute and to then come and join you in the bedroom.
You take off your clothes, and sit propped up by pillows in bed. Oh, and suck on the lollipop, of course. When he comes in, take the lollipop out of your mouth and “accidentally” touch it to your thigh. Tell him to come over and lick off the sticky spot.
When he does that, touch the lollipop somewhere else on your body, and tell him to lick that off, too. Do this a couple more times, and then start touching the lollipop to various places on his body: his shoulders, his chest, and his nipples … licking every sticky spot off. Then, take your time and run the lollipop over his penis.
That’s what he’s been waiting for.
- NAUGHTY CARD GAME
You need to prepare some cards by describing various sexual acts for this dirty sex game. They could be mild to wild.
Shuffle the cards. Have him pick one, and then you pick one. Neither of you can look at your card. Have him hold his card to his head, so you can read it, but he can’t, and you do the same. He needs to figure out what his card says by asking a predetermined amount of questions (usually 10). If he guesses what’s on his card, you perform the act on him.
Then it’s your turn.
Here are some ideas you can write on the cards:
- Try doggystyle/spooning/pretzel/jockey sex positions
- Go down on me for 5 mins
- Hold me down and fuck me
- Literally any fantasy you or your man may have
- ROLE REVERSAL
This game works especially well if one of you is typically more dominant and the initiator for sex. The role reversal game works by having you do what he usually does and by having him do what you usually do in bed.
If he’s usually the aggressor, now you will be, but if you are usually more dominant, then you may want to experiment with being more submissive. If you want to go all out with this one, you can even start incorporating aspects of BDSM into this dirty sex game.
- PRETEND YOU TWO ARE STRANGERS
Both of you plan to meet at a local bar.
Pretend you don’t know each other and act as you would if you really were flirting with some hot guy you’re attracted to in the bar. Make eye contact with your guy, hoping he’ll approach you and buy you a drink (or two). When he finally asks you to come back to his place, say you will.
Play the scene realistically so the other bar patrons think you two really are strangers, and soon you might start believing it, too. When you get home, act as if you’re having a one-night stand.
- YOU’VE BEEN A BAD GIRL
If you have a riding crop for him to use during this dirty sex game, super. But he can also use a hairbrush or just his hand. Tell your guy how bad you’ve been today.
- You forgot to drop off the dry cleaning.
- You didn’t pick up the milk like you said you would.
- You got a speeding ticket. Whatever.
- You’ve been bad and need a spanking.
After you tell your man what you did that was bad, pull down your pants, and bend over the bed.
- COIN AND TIMER
You need a coin and timer for this game. Flip the coin.
If it lands on heads, you perform (what else) oral sex on him for two minutes. That’s where the timer comes in.
If it lands on tails, he performs oral sex on you for two minutes. When the timer goes off, you flip the coin again, and continue with the same rules.
If the coin goes three times in a row on the same side, perform intercourse for two minutes.
You’ll soon be grabbing that coin and flipping as fast as you can.
- JUST A TIMER
Set the timer for 20 minutes. During this time, you can have foreplay, any type you like, but you cannot have any sort of penetration.
This dirty sex game allows you to spend time on foreplay instead of just hurrying through it to get to intercourse. You’ll find ways of being creative in the 20 minutes you’re waiting for the timer to go off.
- WOULD YOU RATHER?
This game involves asking each other questions, and the goal is to learn each other’s fantasies. You can start this off with a cocktail or glass of wine to help get you relaxed.
Ask whether your guy would rather one scenario or a different one, and get him to give you a reason why.
He then asks you.
You could ask your man if he’d rather have you perform a striptease or take a shower together. This dirty sex game is fantastic for quickly learning about his turn ons and fantasies.
He might ask you whether you would rather be the one who is blindfolded or blindfold him. You might ask whether he wants to orgasm by oral sex or intercourse. Play this for several rounds, making sure to keep the questions interesting.