Turning your man on with dirty talk is surprisingly easy and a lot of fun. The 64 dirty talk examples below are going to do just that, get him completely aroused and make for some really intense sex.
If you’ve just stumbled on this page, it’s actually Chapter 2 of the Dirty Talking Guide. In Chapter 1 (you can read it here), I discussed the three most important reasons why you need to talk dirty to your man tonight. The three reasons to talk dirty are to…
- Build sexual tension.
- Make sex more intense and satisfying.
- Keep him thinking about you.
You’ll also find 73 other dirty talking phrases in Chapter 1 along with the 64 examples on this page.
So you now know WHY you should talk dirty and how it’s going to benefit your relationship. Before giving you the 64 examples of dirty talk lower down this page, I first want to teach how to talk dirty so that you do it confidently, AND it makes your man crazy for you.
To talk dirty in a way that’s both confident and effective, there are four factors that you need to consider…
- The Context
- The Tone Of Your Voice
- The Speed Of Your Voice
- What You Do While Talking Dirty To Your Man
The Context When Talking Dirty
Without a doubt, the context is the most important factor to consider when learning how to talk dirty. What I mean by context is WHERE YOU DO IT and WHAT THE MOOD IS.
Imagine the following situation as an example: You are both lying in bed together, cuddling, looking into each others eyes…Your man then tells you, “I love you” for the first time. Now is absolutely the worst time to talk dirty to him. Imagine how disappointed he would be if your response was, “I can’t stop thinking about your cock.”
The context in the example above is a serious and vulnerable and special moment for both of you. Talking dirty is going to ruin the moment. I hope this is obvious.
Here’s a much better example: It’s a Saturday evening, and you’re both at home, fooling around on the sofa. While playing around, you look at your man with a cheeky grin and say, “If you don’t stop messing around, I’m going to grab my whip and teach you a lesson.”
The context is a fun and flirty one (Read: The Flirting Guide). Talking dirty here is only going to add to the fun.
Here’s another great example: You and your husband are both on vacation and have had a few drinks. You get back to your hotel or apartment, and you are both feeling super horny and totally uninhibited. Now is the perfect time to push him onto the bed and have your way with him. Telling him to, “keeping fucking me like that” or “I want to feel you orgasm inside me” or “you’re going to make me cum so hard.” Use these clitoral stimulation techniques to have powerful orgasms during sex.
The point I’m trying to make with these examples is that YOU NEED TO TAILOR YOUR DIRTY TALK TO THE CONTEXT OR SITUATION for it to have maximum effect.
The Tone Of Your Voice
Next is getting your voice tone right. Many students are surprised that a large percentage of communication is non-verbal. In other words, only a small percentage of the power of talking dirty is the actual line itself. The rest is your voice tone and a few other factors that I’ll explain in a minute
Getting your voice tone right will dramatically increase the power of your dirty talk to the point where you are literally hypnotizing your man with your voice.
Imagine using the following naughty dirty talk example on your man in a high pitched, excited-like-a-school-girl-at-a-pop-concert voice that, “I can’t wait to get you home.” Not only will your man be turned off, but he may also be a bit weirded out.
Now imagine telling him the same thing, “I can’t wait to get you home.” In a sultry, breathy voice that you whisper in his ear. Don’t be surprised if he demands to get you alone immediately!
The same applies when you’re in bed together and talking dirty. You could scream, “Fuck me harder” at him like your life depended on it. This is definitely going to turn him on AND make him pound you harder. But what if you said it with a flat, disinterested tone like you had mentally checked out of the situation? It would be a total turn off.
My point here is that some women think that all they need is the line, but smart women like you now know that your voice tone plays a vital role when talking dirty.
The Speed Of Your Voice
The speed of your voice also plays an important role when it comes to the non-verbal aspect of talking dirty.
So in bed, you’re naturally going to be talking quite fast if you are really enjoying yourself and are having some sweaty, steamy sex. You can find some really good dirty talking examples of what to say when you’re having intense, filthy sex with your boyfriend here.
But if you’re having slow, passionate, loving sex, then it’s more natural to talk more slowly and lovingly. You’ll find some great dirty talk examples for slow, passionate sex here.
If you are both out in public together, and you need to be discreet, the slower you whisper into your man’s ear, the better. Drawing it out over 10 seconds will blow your man away…here’s an example,
“I’m…so…dam…horny right now…I…wish…I…had…you…inside…me.”
You’ll find 15 freaky dirty things to whisper in your man’s ear here.
There are two rules you should follow for your voice speed when talking dirty.
- Only talk fast when you’re having really sweaty, filthy, nasty sex. The rest of the time speak very slowly.
- When I say slowly, I mean really slowly.
What Are You Doing When You’re Talking Dirty
Most women get this wrong. When you use any dirty talk example, whether it’s tame or super-freaky, your body needs to be in “alignment” with the words you’re saying to him.
If you are sitting beside him on a plane and randomly whisper in his ear, “I’m so bummed that we’re on a plane, I really want to feel your lips on my pussy right now,” WITHOUT even touching him, it’s NOT going to be particularly effective.
Now imagine saying the same thing, “I’m so bummed that we’re on a plane, I really want to feel your lips on my pussy right now,” while slowly running your fingers up his inside leg. Then after saying it, you slowly pull back and make eye contact with him while smirking at him. It’s going to drive him haywire.
The point I’m trying to make here is that it’s not just the lines that will make you the queen of talking dirty. If you want to truly master talking dirty with your man, you also need to:
- Understand the context.
- Get your voice tone right.
- In most cases, slow the speed of your voice right down.
- Make sure to pay attention to what you’re doing while talking dirty.
Now that we’ve covered how to talk dirty for maximum impact let’s learn some dirty talking examples that will blow your man away.
- There is something so damn hot when you pin me down by my wrists.
- Hearing you groan, moan and shout when you cum is so fucking satisfying.
- Make me cum with your tongue.
- Tonight is all about me, so get down on your knees and put that tongue of yours to work.
- Feeling your seed drip down my leg was the perfect reminder of this morning.
- I’m going to need your services tonight, boy.
- Fuck me harder. – Get 7 intensely rough sex ideas here.
- I’ve never been fucked like that before.
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- Tonight is all about making you cry with pleasure.
- I dreamt about you last night and woke up dripping wet, which was nice.
- I love when you’re rough with me.
- I’ve been a bad girl and deserve a spanking. – Learn how to get your man to spank you here.
- Take your clothes off and get on your hands and knees. Right now!
- I wore this for you.
- Making you hard is my number one priority. – More tips on make your man horny.
- I love seeing your bulge in your pants.
- I absolutely adore feeling you on top of me.
- I love holding your cock and feeling it get hard in my hands. – Learn how to give your man an incredible hand job here.
- I want you to handcuff me and fuck me any way you’d like.
- Do you like the fact that I think about you when I’m masturbating.
- Tonight I want to watch you jerk yourself off.
- I keep fantasizing about you grabbing me and having your way with me.
- I don’t want to be forward, but I need you now.
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- Just feeling your eyes on me makes me so wet.
- Take me right here.
- The plan for tonight is to be your personal sex doll.
- You bring out this animal in me, I love it!
- I want you to scream my name when you cum.
- Give me every last drop.
- Hearing you moan with pleasure turns me on so much.
- Make me your bitch!
- Punish me!
- Your cock belongs to me.
- Fuck my cunt!
- Suck my breasts. – Get more nipple play ideas here.
- Tell me when you’re close.
- Slap my ass.
- Make me feel helpless.
- This pussy is yours, whenever you want it.
- You’re going to pass out with pleasure.
- Shut the fuck up and take your clothes off. – If you want to further dominate your man, then check out this domination guide and these 162 dominant phrases you can say to your partner.
- I don’t normally do this, but you bring out this craziness in me.
- Bite me and mark me as yours.
- I want to feel your hands all over my body.
- Bend me over and spank me, I’ve been a really naughty girl.
- Pull my hair and treat me like an animal.
- I keep thinking about the first time you fucked me; it makes me so insanely horny.
- I want to feel you kiss my entire body.
- Is it weird that I just want you to use me tonight?
- Sex with you is like a drug, and I think I may be addicted.
- I want to feel your cock twitch inside me.
- Make me your bitch.
- Don’t ever stop fucking me.
- I want you to tie me up and have your way with me. – More BDSM tips here.
- Jesus-fucking-Christ you’re going to make me cum.
- I feel so small in your arms.
- I don’t think I could ever get bored of having sex with you.
- I love how your dick feels in my hands!
- There’s a few things that I really like about you; I hope you never stop doing them. – Perfect for keeping him thinking about you.
- I’ve got something I want to try on you later….I think you’ll like it!
- I wish we could just fuck forever.
- Dominate me like the slut I am!
These dirty talking examples will massively spice up your sex life and relationship.