Keeping your man sexually satisfied and stopping him from straying is a high priority for most girls. The following 9 turns ons for guys will help you to keep your man turned on and thoroughly satisfied.
1. Your Appearance
I hate to be that person who asks you to make sure to dress sexy and look after your appearance, but the fact is that all guys are turned on mostly by what they see. This is something that you can pretend isn’t true and you can ignore it, but the fact is that guys are turned on by how you look, by your appearance. I’m absolutely not saying that you need to become a gym bunny or start wearing tons of make up or wearing super revealing clothing to attract and keep a guy.
I’m simply pointing out the fact that there are some very simple things you can do to make sure you are looking your best:
What You Wear – It’s not about wearing revealing clothes to turn your man on, it’s about wearing clothes that accent your best features. If you are naturally curvy and have and hourglass figure, then make sure to wear clothes that accent it. If you have a great pair of legs, then don’t hide them in a pair of baggy jeans, wear a skirt or pair of figure hugging trousers. If you look great in lingerie, then make sure to choose the perfect lingerie for your body. I hope your get the idea…
Your Hair & Make Up – More make up is not necessarily a good thing. Again, the key is to use make up to accent your good features and hide any blemishes. If you already have great skin, then there is no need to wear much foundation. But if you are having a bit of a break out, then feel free to wear some concealer to hide your spots.
The key is to experiment.
Try drawing more attention to your eyes with your make up one night when your out, then don’t draw so much attention to them the next. The same goes for how you do your hair, do you wear it up, leave it down, put it in a pony tail? Again, you should experiment to see what turns your man on the most.
2. Whatcha Say?
If you want a surefire way to turn your man on, then you need to start using some dirty talk in your conversations with him. If you have never tried dirty talk on your man before, then you will be surprised at the impact it can have in turning him on, keeping him thinking about you and building sexual tension with him.
One mistake that students often make with dirty talk is that they think they need to be super raunchy, trashy and even nasty when talking dirty. You certainly can be, but you don’t have to be. In fact, you can be subtle and very relaxed when using dirty talk on your man. The following statements are not ‘filthy’ sounding at all, but work great for turning your man on:
- I can’t wait to get you home tonight!
- There’s something really hot about seeing you in that pair of jeans!
- I wish there was nobody else here, that it was just you and me…
Now obviously, if you want, you can be really raunchy and explicit too if you want to turn him on:
- I can’t wait to feel you inside me later.
- I love feeling you on top of me, dominating me!
- I want to feel your cock in my mouth, while I suck you dry.
Try experimenting with both and see what works best for you.
3. Enthusiasm Really Is Contagious!
One of the main turn ons for guys is enthusiasm. When you are enthusiastic with your man as you are getting sexual with him, you are are showing him that he is arousing you and turning you on.
Why is this a good thing if the aim is to turn him on?
It’s simple…all guys have egos. Being enthusiastic about sex will massage his ego, it will make him feel attractive and desired. It may sound a little counter-intuitive, but it’s massively powerful for turning your man on.
So how can you show your man that you are super enthusiastic about sex with him? Here are a few ways:
- Be more vocal (aka dirty talk)
- Lead & initiate sex with him, which I’ll talk more about later
- Don’t just lie there, get involved!
P.S. Your man should also know how to turn on a woman.
4. How You Movin’?
Like I said earlier, your appearance plays a big role when it comes to turning your boyfriend on. It’s one of my most important sex tips for women. Part of your appearance is how you move. Here are a few things to consider when examining how you move & how you can make it sexier…
- Do you make lots of quick, darting movements and always seem agitated. Or do you move slowly and gracefully through the room?
- Do you walk in such a way that accentuates your best assets. Or do you walk awkwardly in an unattractive way?
Try to think about these questions the next time you are at a party or are hanging out with your man.
5. Fun & Flirty Or Dull & Boring?
One of the biggest turn ons for a guy is a girl who is fun and flirty to be around, not someone who asks 15 boring interview questions in a row! Here are a few simple things you can do:
- When you are chatting with your man, gently make fun of something he’s doing. It could be how he said something, how he holds his drink or even something about his clothes. The key to to be lighthearted, like you are joking around with your little brother. You aren’t trying to insult him, just tease him.
- Another way to flirt with a guy is to touch him a little bit more than normal. Try touching his arm when he says something funny or you could playfully push him away when he says something mean.
- Another great way to flirt with your man to turn him is to intentionally misinterpret what he says to you. For example, he might say something like: “I’m so tired, I can’t wait to go home”, you could pretend to misinterpret is him wanting to take you home and then call him on it. Again, remember to do it in a fun, flirty way.
- Flirting with text messages is also a great idea if you’re not together.
The key to flirting with you man to turn him on is remember that it’s a game, that it’s not supposed to be taken seriously. And don’t forget to watch out for the 13 signs that he is flirting with you.
6. How You Position Yourself (In Bed)
Another great way to turn your man on is start introducing new sex positions in the bedroom. This all ties in with my previous point about being enthusiastic with your man. By initiating new sex positions with your man, you are showing him how enthusiastic you are for sex with him.
If you’re currently nervous about trying positions like Cowgirl, you can overcome this and learn how to ride your man with confidence
7. New Sex Moves
Learning new sex positions are just a small part of the equation to having great sex with your man and turning him on. The other is learning new sex moves, whether they are new blow job techniques, handjob techniques or something that makes for kinkier sex.
8. Initiative & Gentle Dominance
Along with being enthusiastic and trying new sex techniques and positions, another turn on for your man is taking the initiative in the bedroom. So instead of showing him these new positions online or talking to him about trying out something new…just do it yourself.
Just grab him and change position in the bed. Or tell him to sit down on the couch and start deep throating your man without even mentioning it first. Your man will be surprised and very turned on.
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9. Dirty Text Messages
The last turn on for guys that I want to discuss is sending your man dirty text messages. This is so that you can turn him when you’re not even with him. Just like with talking dirty, you don’t necessarily need to be filthy when sending sexy text messages, even subtle ones work really well at turning him on.