You may have found the one.
He may be hot, handsome and funny. But does he feel the same way about you?
The dread of being in a relationship where you can feel your man slowly slipping away from you is far worse than a short, sharp,sudden break up (even if the breakup sex is great).
Nothing is more crushing to your confidence than someone who once was attracted to you, but now doesn’t have that same desire.
But you don’t have to feel powerless.
There are a few simple things that you can do to be the only one that he ever desires…
Looks Do Count
I’m not going to sugar-coat it. I’m not going to hold your hand and say, “looks don’t matter”. I’m not going to tell you that it’s your ‘inner beauty’. The fact is that it’s both your inner and outer beauty that keeps a man attracted.
You can’t have one and not the other.
You need both.
So if you do get into a relationship with a great guy, you have to keep this in mind.
And I know that this is something you might not like hearing.
I’m sorry, but this is The Princess Fantasy. We try to be up front and honest around here. It may hurt to hear now, but in the long run, it’s much better.
So if you do meet a great guy, make sure to keep doing what you were doing before you met him.
If you went to the gym, keep going.
If you were serious about finding and buying stylish clothes, keep doing it.
If you ate healthy, keep eating healthy.
Again you might be thinking, “This all sounds a little shallow Sean!” Maybe it does, but as a guy, who has talked to many other guys about this, I can only say one thing.
Looks do count.
But fortunately your looks are mostly in your control and it surprisingly easy to be hot. You control your clothes, your weight, your hair color and even what your nails look like!
Remain A Challenge
Have you ever wondered why sports are so popular with men. Have you ever wondered why men always dream of being the captain of the Super Bowl winning team or winning an Olympic gold medal?
It’s the challenge.
It’s the same reason that they don’t care much about switching phone plans to save $5 a month. It’s because switching phone plans is not much of a challenge.
You may have noticed that men don’t care that much for the girls that are easy to date or sleep with. They don’t present much of a challenge to them.
But the girls they have to chase after, the girls that they have to prove their worth to, the girls that are a challenge are the girls that guys really desire.
So how can I be the only one your man desires?
Remain a challenge to him
- You need to keep him on his toes.
- You need to make him work for your attention.
- You need to keep friends outside your relationship, so that your man knows that although you love him, you don’t need to rely solely on him for your social life.
- You need to stop giving in to his every whim or demand.
Warning: Remaining a challenge is certainly important if you are serious about your man desiring you.
But if you are always out of reach, always doing only what you want or treating him badly or unfairly, then you are taking it to an extreme.
Taking anything to an extreme is unhealthy for your relationship. You need to keep a fine balance of being challenging, but not too challenging.
Don’t Forget To Flirt
Have you ever seen those dreary couples, sitting silently in a restaurant opposite each other. You know the ones. They are barely talking. They don’t even look like they like each other!
How did they become so dull & boring?
Most likely it’s because they forgot about flirting, about trying to keep things fun and light.
Do not let this happen to your relationship.
Your man will start desiring you less and less if you stop being fun and flirty.
Become A Dynamo In Bed
‘Dynamo’ you say?
It sounds a little cheesy,
But it’s true.
Becoming a dynamo in bed is crucial if you want to be the only one your man desires.
That’s the reason why I decided to create The Princess Fantasy. To teach you everything you need to know about becoming a ‘dynamo’/goddess/queen in bed (or whatever-you-want-to-call-it).
There is so much information here in the Bad Girls Bible that you may feel a little overwhelmed if you try everything all at once. My advice is to simply pick out 1 or 2 techniques that you find interesting and try them out.