Flirting is an incredibly powerful way to build sexual tension with your man as well as keeping him attracted.

Question: What does flirting and sexually satisfying your man have in common?

Answer: A heck-of-a-lot!

A lot of girls get flirting wrong. You shouldn’t use flirting just to meet the guy of your dreams.

You need to use it to keep him.

Flirting should never stop in your relationship (even when you’re 60 years old)…unless you want to lose your man.

Read any website, book or magazine on dating/relationships and they will all say the same thing: You need to flirt with guys if you want to attract their attention.

It’s totally true. Flirting is a great way to have fun with a guy and attract him. But just because you used flirting to attract him doesn’t mean that you should totally forget about it now that you have started a relationship with him.

You should be flirting with him to some degree every day of your relationship.

Flirting with him and talking dirty to him is the perfect way to build sexual tension, turn him on and keep him thinking about you.

So many magazines would like you to think that flirting is moving slowly or staring seductively or smiling at him. Ugh…

The truth is these things do work, but only just a little bit. Here are some much better ways to flirt with guys…


The easiest type of flirting is lightly teasing your man.

The definition of teasing is:

Saying/doing something that’s a little mean while you have a cheeky smile on your face.

Think back to Kindergarden when you teased the guys in your class. It’s pretty much identical to flirting.

So to tease your man, you could say something like:

Cool shoes, your mom always gets you the best clothes.

Remember to have a devilish smile when you say it!

The next time he says some well known catchphrase or line, you could say:

Wow, I didn’t know people still say that. What age are you again?

Again remember to have a cheeky smile as you say so that he knows you are flirting and not actually being mean.

Most people already do this type of flirty teasing with their friends anyway, so you should find it easy.

Warning: Teasing your man is a spice, not the main course. So use it sparingly. Your goal is not to offend your man, it’s to get a reaction out of him.


Flirting by talking dirty to your man is a totally different to flirting by teasing him. When you talk dirty to your man, you are almost always trying to turn him on or get him thinking about you when you are not around.


Physically flirting with your man takes many forms. It’s fun and can also be really powerful, whether you want to just have fun with him or you want to turn him on.

So how can I physically flirt with my man? Could you please give me some examples Sean?

No problem, Here are tons of examples…

Tapping Your Man On The Wrong Shoulder – This one is really childish. But it works really well. If you’ve never actually done it yourself, then most likely you have had it done to you by someone else.

All you need to do is sneak up behind your man. Then when you are behind him, move slightly to the left of him and at the same time tap him on his right shoulder. He will then turn to his right and see nobody and will recognise that someone is messing with him.

Then when he turns back to you, all you need to do is smile.

Hand Is Bigger Than Your Face – You may have heard of this one before. During conversation tell him that you recently read that if your hand is bigger than your face, you are 3 times more likely to get cancer.

If he has never heard of this one, he will put his hand to his face to check. As he does, lightly push his hand towards his face and say, ‘Gotcha!’

It’s a little embarrassing for your man, but a really good way of physically flirting with him.

Something On Your Sweater – Everyone, everywhere has heard of this one, yet he will still fall for it. Look towards his sweater and then point to it. Then tell him he has something on it. As he looks down, move your hand upwards and give him a gentle flick on the nose.

Don’t forget a cheeky smile!

You’re Shoes Are Untied – This is similar to the others above. Tell your man that his shoes are untied. This is especially funny if he is wearing shoes with no laces!

All of these examples are quite childish. But the fact is that they work.


Because they are playful, fun and most importantly they are flirty.

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