Learning how to give oral sex to a guy is just like learning any other skill. It takes time. The more you practice, the better you will get. Plus your man will appreciate all the practice you are putting in! This tutorial will teach you right from the start everything you need to do in order to give your man great head with your mouth.
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Before you start to give your man a blowjob, you must make sure to take care of a few things first. These might not sound like the most fun and sexy things, but they are crucial to staying safe and having long-term fun with your man.
Most importantly, are you both clean and disease free? I am not talking about whether or not you have had a shower today. I’m talking about something far more important. You need to go to a doctor and get checked up regularly to make sure that you are not carrying any diseases or infections. If you are even a little worried that either of you may have something, then use a condom to be extra safe. Your man should also do the same. Once you are both happy that you are disease free, then the next part is a lot easier.
You need to make sure that your mouth is fresh and clean. So make sure to thoroughly brush your teeth and rinse your mouth out before going down on your man. If your man is particularly hairy, then it may be a good idea to get him to trim his hair down there too. If your man is a little hesitant, then just tell him that you can do a better job if he trims himself first. Once you are both sure that you are clean and disease free, then it’s time to get down to business.
Oral Sex Locations
If you have never given your man oral sex before, then you will find that doing it somewhere private the first few times makes it a lot easier. So this usually means doing it in your/his bedroom, although if nobody is home, then you can try other areas in the house. Once you have gone down on him a few times and are comfortable doing it, then it’s time to move to more exciting locations!
The Actual Oral Sex
Once you are both alone, it’s time to start giving your man a blowjob. However, you may find that your man is a little nervous or shy about it. If this is the case, he may not initiate it and you’ll have to take the lead. If this is the case, don’t worry just relax. All you need to do is to get him to lie on the bed.
Once he is, just start kissing him as normal. While you are kissing him, slowly start to lower your hand until you are rubbing his crotch, outside his trousers. As you are rubbing his crotch, you should start to feel his erect penis underneath. When you can feel it, start to unbutton and unzip his trousers and pull them down. He will usually help you at this stage.
With his trousers off, you should be easily able to get access to his erect penis. Just grab it and gently start to masturbate it. Make sure to be gentle and only do it a very short while (less than a minute) so that you still have time to give him a blowjob.
At this stage, it’s very easy to start sucking your man’s penis. All you need to do is to slowly lower your head towards his crotch and take his penis into your mouth. When you take his cock into your mouth, you need to make sure not to take it in too far. Otherwise you may accidentally gag, cough or start spluttering. This is not sexy!
At first you just need to slowly take his cock into and out of your mouth, so that your lips are wrapped around it the entire time. Make sure to use a lot of saliva. The more you use, the better it will feel for your man. You’ll also find that you can use your tongue to gently massage your man’s penis while it’s moving in and out of your mouth.
After a few minutes of using this simple blow job technique, your man is going to orgasm and cum. You will be able to tell when he is going to cum by listening to his breathing. It will start to get much louder and stronger as he reaches orgasm. You can either take his load in your mouth when he cums or instead, take his dick out of your mouth so that you don’t have to taste it.
Quick Oral Sex Tips
If this is your first time giving your man oral sex, you may be nervous. If so, then just turn off the lights when you do it. It will take all the pressure off.
You’ll find that it’s easiest to give your man a BJ when he is lying down on his back or when he is standing up. In practically every other position, either his stomach or legs will get in the way.