In this article, I am going to show you 22 different kissing tips & techniques to use on your partner. This truly is the ultimate guide on how to kiss someone with passion and intensity to show them how much you really like and care for them. If you do it right, then you can be assured that they will pay you back with interest! You’ll notice that there are a ton of kissing techniques, tips, ideas and tactics in this article. Don’t try them all at once. A much better strategy is to just use one or two each time you see your man. That way you will have something new up your sleeve for a long, long time!
And if you are looking to take it to the next level from kissing, these 23 sex techniques should help
1. Let Him Kiss You
Worried about what to do when kissing your man? Not sure what you should be doing with your lips, tongue, mouth and hands?
Your man will most likely be just as nervous. The perfect antidote to this nervousness is to just let your man do all the work. That’s right, just sit back, relax and let your man kiss you while you enjoy it. It’s also a slightly submissive move which you may enjoy
If you feel like he has been doing all the work for a little too long, all you need to do is just imitate him and kiss him back just as he was kissing you. So if he was massaging your lips with his, then do it back to him. If he was licking, sucking and kissing your neck, then do it to him. Easy!
2. Kiss Against A Wall
Embracing each other while kissing is of course very hot…however, there is one move that is a little more passionate than simply embracing each other. The next time you are kissing your man where there is a wall (e.g. your room), try pushing your man back up against it and leaning him to keep him pressed against it.
This is a pretty dominant move that will turn him on a whole lot more…especially if it’s not something you would normally do. So if you are looking to be a bit more aggressive than usual, then try kissing him against a wall, after pushing him into it.
3. Kiss Him While He’s Lying Down
You know that wonderful feeling you get when your man initiates a kiss? It’s hot to have him take control. While this is an almost universal feeling, many forget that guys enjoy it just as much when you initiate and kiss him. Annoyingly though, it can be difficult being the one who initiates the kiss with a guy if he is taller than you.
Thankfully there is a really simple way to make kissing him much easier and more natural. The next time you are both lying down together, position yourself so that you are lying on your man’s chest. From here it is really simple and natural to move to being on top and facing him. Then all you need to do is just lean in to kiss him.
4. Kiss His Neck
I sure hope you already do this. Your man’s neck is a super-sensitive region, and there is a lot of it. So the next time you are both kissing each other, just move your lips towards his neck. Learning how to kiss his neck is super easy…
All you really need to do is gently purse your lips together and suck on a small area of his neck for a second or 2. Then move up or down slightly and kiss another area close by. You can also mix in a little licking too when you are not sucking on his neck. This is one of my favorite foreplay techniques.
A kinky sex technique you can use when kissing his neck is to use a little bit more pressure when sucking his neck to give him a hickey. Another great technique is to VERY gently bite his neck and hold the skin between your teeth. You should feel your man breathing a little faster than normal when you do this!
His neck is just one of his many erogenous zones.
5. The Forehead Kiss
There is something that’s very comforting when you kiss your man on his forehead (or he does the same to you). So it’s probably not the best kissing technique to bust out when you want to be super-passionate. But if your man is tired or upset, then it could be the perfect thing to do.
Of course, it often won’t be that practical if you are both standing up, but it can be incredibly nice if he is sitting or lying down.
6. Play With His Ear
Your man’s ear (especially his ear lobe) is incredibly sensitive. Often it’s even more sensitive than his lips. So a great way to heighten the sensation of kissing him is to softly play with his ear lobe with your fingers while you are kissing him.
Rather than just randomly grabbing his ear while kissing him, you’ll find it much smoother to first hold his neck between your hands and then slide your fingers up to his ear and play with his ear lobe.
It will feel far more natural to play with just one of his ear lobes rather than both at the same time.
While you have your mouth by his ear, it’s the perfect time to whisper something dirty.
7. Kiss His Ear & …
Taking kissing tip #6 to the next level is a smart idea…try kissing his ear. I’m not talking about just kissing his ear lobe. I’m talking about kissing his entire ear. Kissing and massaging the outside part of his ear between your lips is pretty simple, but there is something you can do that is much hotter and sexier…
Lick his ear, especially the inner part of it. Just make sure your tongue is nice and moist. One of the hottest parts of kissing and licking his ear, especially the inside part is that your man will be able to hear everything…your breathing, your kissing & your licking. Try it, your man will love it!
These 81 dirty things you can whisper in his ear are perfect to get his blood rushing.
8. Suck His Ear Lobe
I don’t want to make your man’s ear the main part of this article on how to kiss him, so this is the last time I’ll talk about it. Like I said earlier, your man’s ear lobe is super sensitive, so he will definitely appreciate it if you pay a lot of attention to it.
A really gentle way to stimulate it is to softly suck on it with your lips. Then as you are finishing, lightly squeeze it between your lips and slowly pull away so that it gets pulled through your lips. Another rough sex technique is to use your teeth and do the exact same thing. Just remember to only use a super light amount of pressure when doing this!
Don’t be surprised if you feel your man shaking with pleasure when you do this!
9. Hello Kiss
Saying hello with a kiss is probably the most obvious flirty thing you can do to your man. There is a boatload of different techniques that you can use when giving your man a hello kiss, but the one I always recommend is a quick peck on the lips while embracing him.
Another way to say hello is to just softly squeeze his lower lip between your lips and slowly pull away from him as you are doing it. Yum!
10. Remember To French Kiss
No article on kissing would be complete without covering french kissing! French kissing is the perfect way to really show him how passionate you are. Rather than just sticking your tongue down his throat and twirling it around like a washing machine, it’s actually much more seductive to take things slower and to almost tease him while French kissing him.
Start by sticking your tongue out just a little bit and then use it to softly massage and caress his lips. Your man should take the hint and will start doing the same. Once he opens his mouth a bit and sticks his tongue out then you can start massaging it with yours.
Related: How to give a deeply sensual massage
Try to alternate between a few seconds of massaging his tongue with yours and massaging his lips with your tongue, then let him do the same to you with his tongue while making sure to mix in some regular kissing too. That’s really all there is to it!
11. Kiss When It’s Windy And Cold
Kissing your man in the same locations gets boring very quickly, especially if it’s always in private or always somewhere predictable. That’s why you should try kissing your man when it’s windy and cold. It’s so unexpected, but at the same time, there is something incredibly comforting and warm about it.
There really isn’t much more I can say about it. Try it and see for yourself.
Interestingly, the same advice applies to sex.
12. Kiss After Deep Eye Contact
Most of these kissing tips describe exactly what you need to do to your man ‘physically’. When I say ‘physically’, I mean that I’m giving you instructions on what to do with your lips, tongue, teeth and hands. This is all-important, but how you make him feel is just as important.
A great way to show him how much you love him and care about him is to first make deep eye contact for a few seconds before you kiss him.
Now, this isn’t something you can just force whenever you feel like it. You really need to wait until the time is right. When it is, you’ll know.
It’s also something that you should use very sparingly. The less you use it, the more powerful it will become. In other words, he will crave it the less you do it.
13. Kiss Him On The Cheek
Ok, kissing your man on the cheek isn’t the hottest kissing tactic ever, but it’s a nice extra technique to add to your repertoire. Especially if you need a smooth way to transition from kissing his lips to kissing his neck or ears.
Kissing your man on the cheek is super simple.
14. Give Him Little Pecks
Similar to kissing your man on the cheek is giving him little ‘pecks’, where you only kiss him for a millisecond. It’s actually perfect to use as a way to smoothly transition to giving him a blow job. All you need to do is start giving him little pecks on his neck and then kiss him all the way down his chest to his stomach and finally until you are by his penis and ready to give him a blow job.
15. Kiss When You’re Happy
Sharing a kiss with your man when you’re happy isn’t so much of a powerful kissing tip that will make him fall in love with you. It’s actually just something nice to do with your man to make a fun moment more intimate.
Maybe you’re joking around with him or you’re both laughing at something that happened recently. If the time feels right, then just lean in and give him a quick kiss. Don’t try to force it or do it too often. The key is to keep it natural. If you feel like it’s going to be awkward, then just wait until later.
16. Kiss Him When He’s Behind You
There is something very sexy and even a little submissive when your man is embracing you from behind and you lean back to kiss him. He can even help to direct you by putting his hand on your neck. Again, this is one of those techniques that work best when it’s not forced, but instead, you only do it when it feels right. This also works great if you are having sex from behind.
17. Lightly Scratch His Scalp While Kissing Him
Often I get asked, “What should I do with my hands while kissing my man?” The easiest answer is to just embrace your man by wrapping your hands around him. But this can get a bit boring after a while. A much more passionate way to use your hands is to massage and gently scratch his scalp, especially at the back of his head.
It’s another erogenous zone that is super sensitive and feels wonderful to have rubbed, caressed, massaged and scratched. So the next time you are kissing him try it, your man will love it.
18. Let Him Do The Same (Let Him Scratch Your Scalp)
Having your scalp scratched and massaged feels so good for your man, that you should make sure he does it to you too! If he doesn’t do it on his own accord, you could ask him to do it…but that’s pretty awkward. A much smoother way is to do it to him for a little bit. Then after a while, just grab his hand and put it on your scalp. The back of your scalp is by far the most sensitive. Most guys will instinctively know what to do from here.
A great way to let him know that he is doing a good job is to moan and groan while he massages and softly scratches your scalp.
19. Kiss With Passion
I hope that you’re enjoying all of these kissing tips. One mistake people often make after reading these tips or any new things to try in bed is that they just use them as rules. They think they should do each kissing tip once and do all the tips in order or something like that.
This is not hot or sexy at all. It will make your man think he is kissing an emotionless robot! A much better way to kiss him is to just try 1 or 2 of these tips and then afterward just do what feels right and good. This will make for much more passionate kissing where you are simply enjoying what you are doing and getting lost in the moment instead of worrying about what to do next.
This also applies when you have sensual sex.
So use each of these kissing techniques as a rough guide, not as hard rules that you must follow. If you do, then you’ll notice that it feels very natural and it’s much easier to kiss your man with passion.
20. Kiss With Tenderness
When your man is tired, feeling down or just isn’t in a great mood, then he’s probably not going to respond so well to you kissing him super passionately. In fact, if you do this when he’s not in the mood, it could really turn him off. A much better way to kiss him is in a way that shows him that you care about him. Kissing him tenderly will achieve exactly that.
Kissing him tenderly is super easy, just softly massage his lips between yours, kiss him on the cheek and to touch him and even hug him.
21. Caress Him While Kissing
Massaging your man’s scalp or hugging him isn’t the only thing you can do with your hands while kissing him. Don’t forget to run your hands all over his body…his chest, back, arms, shoulders and don’t forget about his butt! This is nice when you are both somewhere private.
But if you are both naked, lying in bed, it’s a lot more powerful and fun!
22. Kiss In A Crowded Place
Kissing your man in a crowded place isn’t something that everyone is comfortable with, but I really hope you try it at least once. And I’m not talking about a bar or club. I’m talking about somewhere in the open, like on a street or in a mall or shopping center.
Some people don’t realize that they actually like the idea of other people seeing them kiss their man until they actually try it. Who knows, maybe you will too!
This also applies to having sex outside, just make sure to keep it legal!
I hope that you enjoyed this article on how to kiss your man with passion and intensity. However, learning how to kiss your man is just the start. You should also start thinking about incorporating other great sex techniques in your arsenal for when things get even more intimate.