Being a good kisser is a huge turn on for guys.
If you have never kissed a guy before then have no fear, the Bad Girls Bible is here to help you gain the confidence and skills to give your man a passionate and hot kiss every time. But before we get to the fun stuff, you need to do some important preparation…
Hopefully you already do these things, because they are an important part of staying fit and healthy. But in case you don’t I’ll list them here to make sure that your mouth and lips are fresh and healthy.
BRUSH YOUR TEETH!
You should make sure to brush your teeth at least twice a day, preferably after every meal. There is absolutely no reason as to why you shouldn’t be regularly brushing your teeth. It’s vital for keeping that horrible fur (plaque) off your teeth and preventing gum disease. Most importantly, a healthy set of pearly white teeth is much more inviting for your man than yellow or discolored teeth.
FLOSS & MOUTHWASH
Don’t stop at merely brushing your teeth. Make sure to floss regularly to get rid of plaque and food that gets caught in those hard to reach places that your toothbrush can’t reach. Rinsing your mouth out with mouthwash is great for making sure you have fresh breath too.
HAVE SOFT LIPS
Making sure that your breath is fresh and your teeth are clean and white is obviously crucial. An equally important aspect is your lips. Are they dry, chapped and rough? If so then you need some lip care girl! At a minimum get some chapstick, but if you are serious about it, there is a massive range of different treatments, creams, balms and gels that you can use on your lips to make them fuller, softer and more inviting to your man.
Okay, that’s the boring BUT IMPORTANT stuff covered. Now onto to the fun stuff!
START KISSING HIM
Often the hardest part of kissing a guy is starting it. Perhaps he is too shy to initiate it or he doesn’t have the confidence to try it or maybe he has never even kissed a girl. If that’s the case, then you are going to have to put your best foot forward and just go for it. But how?
First start by making sure that you are both alone together and aren’t going to be disturbed. You then need to position yourself so that you are close to your man. Then as you you are talking to him and he is talking to you, start looking at his lips. Make it quite obvious. Every once in a while, lick your lips or gently bite them. This will subtly let your man know what you are thinking about.
Slowly get closer to your man until you are leaning in towards him. Wait for a quiet moment and then slowly move in to kiss him. 99 times out of 100, your man will kiss you back.
This takes a good deal of courage. But it’s totally worth it.
HOW TO ACTUALLY KISS YOUR MAN
As you move in to kiss your man, open your mouth slightly and tilt your head to the side so that you don’t accidentally bump noses. When your lips meet your man’s lips, just start to slowly massage them with you lips. To do this, just squeeze his lips in yours very gently. He will start to do the same back to you. Keep slowly massaging his lips with yours for a few minutes, then move your head to the other side to slightly change things up a bit.
After doing this for a little while, it’s time to start using a little tongue. Slowly start to open your mouth wider and wider until you can easily extend your tongue into his mouth and start massaging his tongue. Kissing with your tongue is often referred to as French kissing. There is no right way or wrong way to French kiss your man. Although one thing that you should avoid is the ‘washing machine’ where you just spin your tongue around really fast in his mouth.
A great little technique that guys love is the ‘nibble’. Just gently nibble or bite his lower lip or squeeze it between your lower lip and top set of teeth.
A great way to kiss your man is to slowly change from kissing him with your tongue to using your lips and then back again to using your tongue and then also nibbling his tongue every once in a while. But kissing him on the lips and mouth is just the beginning…
HIS CHEEKS, EARS AND NECK
Getting kissed on the lips feels great for both guys and girls. But getting kissed on the cheeks, ears and neck is equally pleasurable. To kiss your man on the cheeks is simple and straightforward. All you need to do is move your mouth away from his and then start very gently kissing his cheek.
It’s then very natural to keep moving up your man’s cheek to start kissing him on his ear. The most sensitive part of his ear is the ear lobe (very bottom part of his ear). Kissing this is quite easy. Just gently suck on it. While sucking on it, you can tease and tickle it with your tongue at the same time. You can also give it a gentle nibble too.
Moving on from your man’s ear lobe, it’s super easy to start kissing his neck. You can open your mouth very wide while kissing his neck and then slowly close it in a gentle sucking motion. But be careful not to give him a love-bite (sometimes referred to as a hickey) when doing this. But maybe you want to give him a love bite. If you do want to give him a love bite though, you should try gently biting his neck while you are sucking and kissing it.
A great way to be the one in control when you are kissing your man is to softly put your hand on his chin. When you do, you’ll find that it’s very easy to turn it from side to side to control where you kiss him.
A great way to learn new kissing techniques is to try imitate the things your man does to you, that you enjoy. So if he nibbles your lip a little, try nibbling his. If he does something really hot with his tongue, then try doing that back to him.