If you have read the other nine chapters of the Blow Job Guide, you will have learned everything there is know on giving your man great oral sex. This is the very last chapter of the Blow Job Guide. You can skip to Chapter 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8 & 9 by clicking the numbers.
Ever since I first published the Blow Job Guide, I have gotten countless pieces of advice, techniques and tips from readers who have their own stories on how they give their men incredible fellatio. Below are the most helpful comments from readers. By the way, if you have a helpful tip yourself, please leave it in the comments section below.
- AFTER THE SHOW
This one is from Ashli
Just before the last act of the stage theater behind, I whisper that I can’t wait to have his cock in my mouth. Then slowly rub is leg during the performance. When he looks at me I slowly lick my red lipstick and sensually open my mouth. He squirms and can’t wait for the show to end.
And I’ll tease his cock in the car with through his pants wish my finger nails. He blows his load the second we are home when I put him in my mouth. He had no recollection what the show was about.
- HARD DAY AT WORK
A comment from Sue
I have a something that I would like to share.
When my man is feeling a little down, bad day at work or whatever; I always want to show him how much I love him and want to make him feel amazing. So what I do is I start slow, kissing and touching my man all over. I kiss his neck up to his ear lobes and then slowly move down his body; I take him in my hands and slowly tease him too build things up even more. when I have him really turned on and is ready to go a little harder (No pun intended) I take him with both my hand and firmly twist my hand in opposite directions; right hand twisting to the left, left hand going right and moving upwards to the tip. Then I use my mouth to suck hard on his tip using my tongue fellatio his tip. This drives him insane, nothing makes him moan so load and cum quickly. =)
- THE STOP/START
Diane posted this first fellatio story in the comments section…
First off I love giving blow jobs. I love how it feels in my mouth, how it tastes and how I make the men feel. Usually the guy doesn’t know I want to give just as much as he wants to receive.
To me giving a man a blow job is a totally submissive thing. I do not use it for foreplay, once I start he knows I will finish. Once we were at a movie theater in the back row. I got him so close but before he could finish people came in. We stopped and I started again on the drive home but again we were interrupted by a cop pulling him over for weaving. The cop had to know what I was doing but he didn’t say anything and gave just a warning.
The guy was crazy excited. I knew he had “blue balls” and so wanted to finish so we parked and I went at it again. He jerked and grunted and told me later that was the most fantastic orgasm he ever had. The build up, the stop and starts. Having to talk to the cop with a throbbing erection, wondering if I would do it some more just drove him crazy.
I have practiced this on many guys since but I tell them before, just be patient. It may take all night, off and on, but at the end you/we will get the reward.
Then I moved in with a guy and we started letting it go for a day then two then a week. I would play with him, suck him, let him enter me but never let him complete. I would of course one way or another but after a few days the guys attitude completely changes. I controlled when he came and the anticipation. drives them nuts. And the attention they give you during this period is awesome!
- A VERY LOVING BJ
This story was sent in my Pamela (name changed for privacy)….
Here’s something I’ve done a few times to really knock the socks off my man that I think your readers will enjoy.
When I know, my man has had a long and hard day, (no pun intended!) and he gets off work I want to show him how much I appreciate everything he does for me. Of course, I could just tell him how much I appreciate him, but, actions do speak louder than words!
He usually likes to sit down on the couch and watch TV before bed, so this is when I deploy my unique fellatio routine.
First, I walk over to the sofa and straddle him so I can tell him how much I love him, before giving him a few kisses. Nothing super intense or long or overly passionate. Just some kisses so he knows how I feel about him. (Learn more tips on building up to and starting your blow job in Chapter 2)
Next, I reach down with one hand and start to massage him between his legs. If he’s had an especially stressful day at work, it can be a lot of trouble getting him hard, but most days he’s like a flag pole
Once I can feel that he’s hard, I then get down on my knees and pull his jeans down. Well, I try to pull his jeans down. Sometimes this can be a bit awkward, though, lol!
Once I have them off, it’s time to get to work! I usually start by licking all the way from the base of his penis to the tip. And when I say base, I mean the part behind his testicles. I lick from there, over his balls, up the shaft of his penis and to the head of it.
Sometimes when I get to the tip of his penis, I give it a few seconds of extra attention before starting at the bottom again. I try to do this “bottom-to-top” motion super slowly, so I draw out his pleasure.
After a few minutes of this, when he’s awake and into it, I take his hands and hold them while taking about 2-3 inches of him in my mouth. Then I just move my tongue around his cock, around and around. That’s all I do. There’s really no secret.
There’s just something so intense and intimate and passionate about holding his hands while I perform fellatio on him. It feels like a combination of doing something loving and caring and intimate and sexy for my man all rolled into one.
Then when he climaxes, he squeezes my hands extra hard, starts cursing like a bandit and cums in my mouth.
And that’s how I perform fellatio on my man. I hope my story inspires others!
- DEEP & SLUTTY
This next one was sent in by Sandra (name changed for privacy)…
I love when we have our date night on a Friday or Saturday night, and I have a few drinks. It always makes me super horny and eager to get him home.
I’m blushing as I type this, but it makes me feel kinda of slutty, but in the best possible way. Being a little drunk sets me free to feel a bit like a pornstar, eager to do more than I normally do…if that makes sense.
That’s when I like to take my man deep instead of just giving him regular fellatio. He puts his hands on the back of my head and controls everything. Even though I still gag a bit, it’s super-crazy hot.
Feeling his dominance, hearing him moan in pleasure and knowing that he’s about to ejaculate uncontrollably is the hottest thing ever. And he usually does go over the edge after just a minute or two of this.
I guess you could say that my tip to your readers is to let your man take control and “head fuck” you, as my man calls it. Even though it can be a little uncomfortable, messy and you may be gagging a bit, it’s red hot being his submissive oral sex slave.
- TAKE SOME TIPS FROM A GAY MAN
First of all, actually giving a guy a BJ takes a lot of initiative from your end, so that is why guys don’t really give feedback on your performance. They don’t want to feel like they are pestering you. So that is why you should take them by surprise and give them head that they will never forget.
Secondly, you have to take the type of dick he has into consideration. Whether he is cut, uncut, big, small, there are different techniques to maximize his pleasure.
For cut dicks, you should use more pressure, since they are not that sensitive. Don’t just slurp on his dick, you have to really use some hoover action with your cheeks. Just imagine that you are sucking a golfball through a garden hose, as the saying goes. Use more pressure with your tongue and lips.
For uncut dicks, let’s hope that it is a clean one. If not, be honest and tells him that he needs a wipe around the hood. If everything is good, then go for it. Uncut dicks are more sensitive, so you have to be careful with how much you stimulate the head. You should still suck hard, but also use the foreskin to your advantage. Tug it a little. Put your tongue in between the foreskin and the head, and swirl your tongue around while stroking him with your hands.
Here are some other things you can do while blowing him:
Lick the frenulum (the area just under the head, under the “peehole,” there is a little flap of skin). It’s the most sensitive part of the penis. Use it to your advantage.
Cup his balls while you suck him. Place a finger on his perineum (taint) and put pressure on it.
Glide your lips up and down the sides of his shaft.
Tease him. For example, start slowly putting your mouth towards his penis, but backing away at the last second.
Rub your open palm (with lube) over the top of his head in a circular motion, like you are polishing it, while grabbing the shaft with the other hand.
Stick your tongue in his “peehole.” It’s weird, but can feel good.
Nibble gently on the foreskin with your teeth.
Generally, teeth is frowned upon, but an expert Blow Jobber will know how to use it will. An example is ever so slightly scraping around the shaft with your teeth.
Deep throating requires some training before you can get it right. Even then, it might now always be in your favor. Of course you are more likely to gag on large dicks than small ones. To lessen the gag reflex, you have to do the “tongue depressor” action, which is opening your mouth wide, and sticking your tongue out.. Then, once his dick gets near your throat, you have to start swallowing (this stops the gag reflex). It requires a lot of coordination, mental focus, and practice to get it right. But if you start choking or gagging, pull out his cock. He will find it flattering that you are literally suffocating from his dick.
Just explore with what you have… Using your lips, tongue, and what not. Find out what feels good to him. Communication is the key.
And lastly… The dreaded rimjob. If you can get over the ick factor, you will have complete control over him. Surprisingly, usually guys are less into rimjobs because they feel that they are too “hairy” or “gross” down there. If you have a strong stomach, I’m sure you won’t mind that. Otherwise, they can shave down there and get it all squeaky clean.
Rimjobs have to be eased into… They will find it ticklish at first, but if it “clicks,” they will be hypnotized.
First, make sure that he is comfortable. Some guys prefer lying on their back, but you might have to squish your face into the bed. You could put a pillow under his lower back to alleviate this, or have him lie on his stomach (or go on his knees, bent over), if he can, as this will allow more range of motion with your head.
Start by lightly dabbing your tongue on the hole, and then making circular motions, or licking up and down. As he “loosens up,” you can add more pressure. Use your lips to literally “kiss” his butthole, and start sucking on it a little. Constantly switch it up, to create things exciting. Eventually, if you can get your tongue into his anus, and into the rectum, that is where you have him locked down. He won’t want to take your tongue out. It’s that good. Once inside, start flicking your tongue and going crazy (just don’t pull your tongue muscles! you don’t want to have any embarrassing injuries).
While you are rimming him, you can also stroke him a little. But be careful, as he might start to climax very quickly. It really feels that good!
And there you have it, a gay man’s guide to oral sex (for women). Blow jobs are very labour intensive, especially if you will have to do it for 10 minutes, and you might have to deal with a hoarse voice or a neck pain the next day. But follow these steps, and I am sure your man will buy you that Chanel bag.
Cheers!