On The importance Of Riding A Man Well
When it comes to a romantic relationship, women are mostly taught the importance of better sex, orgasm or relationships but nobody tells you the nitty-gritty of how they can improve the techniques and they are left with little knowledge about precisely HOW to spice up their relationships. For this reason, many women think that they won’t be required to get on top during sexy with her man because they don’t know how to ride him properly. Some women say that they're afraid of embarrassing themselves, and others make excuses because being on top is too tiring. And others just admit that they don’t know how to ride a man well.
Don't worry - this article is meant to help all those ladies who want to please her man but doesn’t know exactly how to do it. Here are some tips on how to ride a guy until he feels like he is in heaven.
#1 Be Extra Careful When Sitting On Top Of The Guy
People don’t mention this tip a lot, but it’s important to position yourself on top of your man properly so that you can see his face comfortably. Besides, if you position yourself well, you will be able to ride his dick for a long time before you get tired. When your man’s dick is hard, the penis is not flexible and sitting on it wrongly and pressing it down with all your body weight might result in much strain and pain. Make sure to find his natural angle and put your pelvis in a position you and the guy are both comfortable in. Every guy has a different angle, so don’t assume you'll be able to climb on top and start riding him just like that. If you do it wrong, it will make you tired faster and it could even hurt him. Just a warning though- when you ride him enthusiastically, don’t let his penis slip out because if it does, it might result in some painful injuries!
#2 Please Yourself First. Please Your Man Second.
A guy wouldn’t mind at all if you hopped on top and did the riding. So if you want to cum hard, don’t disappoint yourself. Just do it! You perhaps do that behind the closed door of your bedroom. When you go on top of your man, imagine he is an object sent from heaven for you to ride on. After you have achieved your sexual peak, you can now start to please him by making some dirty moves. That alone can make him grab your ass and grind you from below. It’s basically like killing two birds with one stone, and even though your man might think you are selfish and feel tired when doing it for the first time, he will appreciate it later on.
#3 Be Creative During The Ride!
When you are on top of him and in control, ask your man some questions. A good woman will ask her guy some dirty questions with a lot of confidence. You can also bend over to his face and kiss him as you request him to kiss you on the neck, grab your boobs or your waist. However, as you ride on him, don’t ask him questions not related to sex or else he will get tired of you. You don’t have to worry about what he doesn’t want to hear; a good guy will just tell you.
#4 Learn The Motion Of The Ocean
Your guy would enjoy this so much, and he wouldn’t get tired of it. Sex should go hand on hand with passion and so while you ride on him, you can lay down flat on him, kiss him, maintain an eye-contact, touch cheek to cheek and move slowly and gently. While you do that, maintain a rolling and a steady rhythm kind of movement described as the motion of the ocean, on your man. By doing it gently, you will ride your guy for a long time without getting tired.
#5 Make An “In And Out” Motion
While you ride, don’t just wiggle around. You perhaps afraid of getting tired while going up and down but it’s recommended to do so that your man can be pleased. You can even spice it up by doing it from the sides and please your guy more. You don’t have to do it by precisely going up and down, but you can also do a back and forth and make sure you are playing between the tip of his dick and his balls. Otherwise, if you mistakenly let the dick out of you, you might end up hurting him after falling on him, and you both end up frustrated and tired.
#6 Relax And Enjoy Every Bit Of It!
Keep it one hundred, girl. Enjoy every bit of the ride. Change angles, look at the face of your man, turn back and let that guy face your ass, grind on him, and do anything that will make you feel worthy. Bounce on him and when you are about to cum, shake like you have been electrocuted. If your guy loves calling out when having sex, then listen to his mourning and drive him crazier, you shouldn’t get tired at that point.
#7 Turn Around And Face The Opposite Direction
Most men love when girls face the other side and when you do that, your guy will likely grab your ass or caress it. Meanwhile, you can ride on him as you play with your clit and make nasty facial expressions. If by chance your guy is a breast man, turn around for a short while and then switch back again so that he can enjoy touching them. However, some men can get tired touching your boobs and wish to see the back. So, keep changing your direction.
#8 Confidence Is Key
This is another free tip. You can’t achieve most of the things in life without being confident, including an incredible sex drive. Confidence brings motivation, and you can’t get tired if you believe in yourself. Most men want to see this. There is nothing that turns on a guy than a woman who is horny and asks for sex first. If you are confident, you will just show your man that you want it, get his dick out from his boxers, make him hard and take your role as the pilot.
#9 Know How to Control His Dick
Many girls might ask if the dick size matters. Yes, it does, but some girls are experts in riding their men and can ride any dick irrespective of its size. The secret behind this is not going further than the dick length. You should always make sure the dick doesn’t slip out. If it does a couple of times, the guy might get tired of you. If you are good at estimating, play with his penis and allow it to stroke your clitoris. The head is always the main point that provokes a dick to become hard, and you want it to be that way for a long time. Right?
#10 Juice Your Guy
A woman should know how to drive a guy crazy by grinding on him. Grinding is a process in which two surfaces rub to cause friction. However, you can up your game by squeezing and pulling away from him thus creating some friction. When you squeeze your man and ring him out, it drives him crazy, and it will be evident on his face. However, don’t do it continuously as he might get tired of it. You can grind him for a little while, go up and down and then juice him. Many guys would love you to do this.
#11 Try and Practice And Don't Get Tired Doing So
If you want to know how to ride a guy, you must be ready to try and practice it. Being afraid to do so will derail you because it’s the best way of learning how to do it. He might get tired of it when you are starting but immediately you perfect it he will love it. Never say you failed something without trying. Also, practice it with your man and allow him to see your every step of the way. By that I mean you have to involve him entirely in your progress.
#12 Wear Some Perfume
Make sure you smell yummy or use the spray that the guy bought for you. Men love sweet scents and when you do that he is turned on and he won’t get tired of you. Sometimes you can spray yourself when you are already on top or at least hand it to the man so that he can spray your body himself. By doing that you provoke him more and he longs to see you get busy with him.
#13 Put Some Music That You Can Go Along With
Music is entertaining, and many songs are about passion and romance. The rhythm of this kind of music can be influential on the way you are riding your man. Moreover, he doesn’t get bored and tired in the process as music is soothing. Get yourself some music CDs, exceptionally slow jams like Soul, R&B or Blues and press play before you jump on top of him. Guys will prefer you put some music that is also good for them so that when you get tired, he can flip you over and ride you himself.
#14 Teamwork. You Need To Be In Partnership In Case One Gets Tired
You got to be a cowgirl on him and make that guy understand you need to work together towards one goal. Most men prefer to go first until they are sweaty and tired. After he's done, are you going just to sleep there? Not really. You will come on top and captain the vessel. That’s the best position for a girl and when you put your man down, make sure he relaxes while you take over and do the riding. When you work together, you get a more extended sex drive, and also you get to please your man. That sex is not for you only but both of you so you need to involve the guy fully.
#15 Let Your Hair Him Him
When a man feels your hair in the middle of romance, he feels motivated. After all, your hair defines your feminism, and since man existed, a woman’s hair has been a significant factor during sexual intercourse. If he is not on top of you, how else will he feel your hair as you make love? By you being on top, of course. While on top of him, and grinding, a guy can get aroused by seeing your hair all over your face. However, some guys prefer to look at your hair tied on the back. Bottom line, your hair will make your ride on the top more passionate.