Learning how to swallow cum at the end of a blow job is an interesting topic. For some women, the thought is terrifying, while others find the idea both erotic and fun.

One of the main psychological reasons why your man may want you to put your lips on his penis and swallow his load after cumming is that it’s both an erotic and submissive gesture. And let’s be honest here, a lot of guys like to take the dominant role when having sex with you. Another reason may be that he has seen it in a porno and wanted to try it out himself.

Maybe you like the idea of swallowing his load too; many women do. In fact, a study found that 72.1% of women fantasized about giving their man fellatio and 41.3% of women fantasized about a man ejaculating on them[1]. Based on this, you can probably see how swallowing his load is an entirely normal fantasy to have. And in case you are wondering if eating his cum is safe, you’ll be glad to know that as long as you and your man are healthy and disease free, then it is perfectly safe[2]. In fact, it’s not only safe, it even has health benefits that I discuss here.

Before we dive into the fundamental and advanced techniques for swallowing your man’s sperm, let’s start with something that is essential to ensuring YOU have a great time doing it.


Your man’s cum will usually taste a little bitter and salty, but it doesn’t have to taste awful. The taste of your man’s cum depends a lot on what he has just eaten. Many women have found that if their man has been eating something like asparagus, artichokes or anything greasy it will taste a lot nastier than usual.

However, if your boyfriend has been drinking a lot of fruit juice or eating a lot of sweet fruit a few hours before you go down on him, it will taste quite sweet and will make it much easier to swallow. You’ll also learn lots of tricks and tips to deal with the taste.


Swallowing your man’s load is relatively easy. All you need to do is just allow him to ejaculate in your mouth. Then when he is finished orgasming, just swallow it.

Of course, this is much easier if you wash it down with a glass of water or something like fruit juice/soda to mask its taste.

As his sperm and semen are quite sticky in texture, you’ll find out that allowing him to ejaculate into the back of your throat is best as it lets you more easily swallow it. It also means you don’t have to worry about it hitting your taste buds.

Warning – I only advise swallowing your man’s load if he is entirely free of STIs as his semen can transport infections like Hepatitis[3] and HIV[4].


Now that we’ve covered the easy, basic technique to swallowing his semen when giving him head, let’s move on to the more advanced techniques.

Play Around With It – After he ejaculates in your mouth, instead of immediately swallowing it, keep it in your mouth. You can then open your mouth to show him his load before swallowing it. Or you can swirl it around your mouth, so it looks like you are savoring the taste before gulping it down.

If you want to be even kinkier, you can open your mouth and use your fingers to play with it. As it’s so sticky, you can easily grab it with your fingers and then let it slowly drip back into your mouth. Another kinky way to play with it is by blowing bubbles with his cum.

I Love It! – If you aren’t too keen to play with his cum before swallowing it, but you do want to make eating his cum hotter than usual, then just make some satisfying sounds after swallowing it. Gently humming, “Mmmmmmmmmmm” or “Yummmmmm” after swallowing it is an excellent way to make it more erotic for both of you.

You can even go a little further by telling him how it tasted, “I love swallowing your cum” or “I adore feeling your cum trickle down my throat” or “Swallowing your cum makes me so wet.”

Lick It Up – Letting him finish in your mouth during fellatio is not the only way that you can swallow his cum. If he finishes somewhere on himself, you can still swallow it! It’s a simple case of licking it up after he cums, which can look crazy intense and hot for your man.

Facial Swallow – This last cum swallowing technique is going to be a bit out there for most. Allow your husband to finish by giving you a facial. Holding his dick while he does it will help you to direct where he cums on your face and prevent him from hitting you in the eye. After he blows his load over your face, use your fingers to scoop up all his cum from your face and then drop it into your mouth. Once you have all his cum in your mouth, swallow it and let out a satisfied sigh.


You may be in a relationship with a guy who wants you to swallow his load while you may not want to do it at all. That’s perfectly fine. The important thing is to talk to him about it. Great relationships are based on mutual understanding and respect and great communication. You should never allow a guy to do something to you that you don’t want. Make sure that he knows this.

As with almost all safe sexual practices, my advice is to try it at least once with a guy that you know and trust, before deciding if swallowing his load is something you do or don’t enjoy. However, if you want to avoid risks during oral sex, then it’s advisable to keep semen out of your mouth completely[5], especially if you do not know your man’s recent sexual history and want to make sure you are as safe as possible.

Some women can also have an allergy to seminal fluid[6], in which case swallowing his cum should be avoided altogether.

If you plan on finishing off a blow job by swallowing your man’s cum, then make sure that you give him a great BJ.


As I mentioned earlier in this guide, swallowing your man’s cum is perfectly safe if both you and your guy are healthy and disease free. In fact, it’s not only safe, but it also has a bunch of health benefits too.

You Should Swallow When Pregnant – Studies have found that swallowing his load after oral sex correlates with a diminished occurrence of preeclampsia[7], a nasty condition that pregnant women sometimes get that raises your blood pressure and can affect other organs like the kidneys. So yes, swallowing cum is a healthy thing to do even for pregnant women!

Oxytocin aka The Bonding Hormone – Semen contains oxytocin[8], a hormone that helps you to increase trust, reduces your fear and is also known as the bonding hormone (or cuddle hormone) which is great if you want to feel closer to your man.

Brain Booster – You man’s seminal fluid aka his cum contains a lot of nerve growth factor[9], a compound responsible for the growth of neurons in your brain and boosting your brain health.

Staying Healthy With Antioxidants – Semen also contains some beneficial antioxidants like superoxide dismutase, glutathione, catalase[10], vitamin C, vitamin E, pyruvate, and carnitine[11] and citric acid[12], which all protect against damaging free radicals.

Live Longer – Your man’s load contains a compound known as spermidine which has been proven to have anti-aging properties[13].

Electrolytes – A guy’s semen contains numerous electrolytes including calcium, magnesium, potassium, sodium, zinc and chloride[14], which are vital for staying healthy, especially if you are an athlete and want to function at the highest level…Although rehydrating with a bottle of semen instead of your usual isotonic drink is going to be pretty awkward. By the way, these electrolytes are one of the reasons why your man’s cum tastes salty.

Sugar for Energy – Semen contains small amounts of both fructose[15], and glucose[16] perfect if you want to enjoy an energy boost. However, the amount of glucose and fructose in the typical guys load is minuscule, less than 20mg per load, so you’re going to have to drink a lot to feel any sugar rush.

Protein for Bodybuilders – You will also find protein in your man’s semen[17], which is vital for building and repairing your muscles.

Hopefully from all this research, you can see just how safe and healthy swallowing your man’s load is.


  • For Diego if still married have sex with your wife and ejaculate in her vagina then slurp up your seman and give her a orgasm at the same time, you’ll love the experience and it’s your seman so you don’t get any sti.

    Carlos Chavez
  • May be one day I get an email from my home town Iskamabad in my mailbox that there is some lady who wanna eat me.

  • I live in Islamabad. I have never ever found a lady who is willing to drink me.

  • I’m 55 and married but my fantasy is to swallow cum but I don’t know anyone who is willing to let me suck their dick so I can swallow cum what do I do

  • I’m 20 years in the game with my hub, only man I have been with and I’m not a swallower. I love giving my husband head, it’s a turn on not only for him but me too. lately I have been having the urge to start trying for him. Even though we both love it on me where ever he wants it or asks me where I want it. So the tips I have read here were very helpful and the health benefit I knew some but not all so I really learned a lot of new things.
    Thanks This info was very helpful.


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