Learning how to talk dirty to your man is a great way to spice up your relationship and keep it interesting. This quick start guide on talking dirty to your boyfriend or lover will get you up to speed very quickly. Enjoy!
WHY SHOULD YOU TALK DIRTY TO YOUR MAN?
So many relationships start out great, with passionate sex and having lots of fun with each other. But almost always, as the relationship progresses, things start to become routine…to the point where it can actually become even a little boring.
Boredom is kryptonite to your relationship.
If your partner starts to get bored, then you are increasing the risk that he is going to look for excitement elsewhere (in other words, he is more likely to cheat if he gets bored).
Talking dirty to your guy is the perfect way to spice things up and keep your relationship fun and exciting. The really cool thing about talking dirty to your man is that you don’t just have to be in the bedroom to do it. You can talk dirty to your man anywhere. On a plane, in a coffee shop, at the movies, anywhere. On top of being able to talk dirty to your man anywhere, you can also use SMS text messages to talk dirty as well as talking dirty on the phone or via email.
WHY TALKING DIRTY DOES NOT ALWAYS HAVE TO BE SEXUAL
The main purpose of dirty talk is to keep your relationship exciting and interesting. A lot of girls I teach how to talk dirty often misunderstand this.
You do not have to say outrageously sexual things to your man to arouse him and build sexual tension.
You’ll be surprised at how non-sexual your dirty talk can be while still arousing your man. Take some of these dirty talking phrases for example. Try these dirty talk phrases for example:
I’m going to do something for you tonight….I think you’ll like it a lot!
I love it when you wear those jeans.
Notice how non-sexual these dirty talk examples are. The first phrase could mean practically anything, depending on how you say it. It could mean that you are going to cook for him or it could mean you are going to give him a blowjob or it could mean that you are going to throw a party for him.
The second phrase is only a little bit sexual. It’s a compliment, but it’s still not very sexual.
Note: Here is more of my Take some of these dirty talking phrases and dirty talking examples.
In my experience, the best way to talk dirty to your man is to sometimes be very sexual and then sometimes be non-sexual with him. This variation will help to keep him on his toes and not know what to expect next.
WHAT YOU SHOULD SAY TO YOUR GUY TO TALK DIRTY
If you have never talked dirty to a guy before, then you may be wondering what you should say to him. First of all, let me just say this:
There is no perfect dirty talk phrase or line to say to your man that will turn him on, build sexual tension and make him attracted to you.
Anyone who tells you otherwise is lying.
When figuring out how to talk dirty to your man, you need to have a desired outcome in mind. Do you want to arouse him? Do you want to make him constantly think about you? Do you want to tease him? Do you want to build sexual tension?
DIRTY TALK TO AROUSE HIM
Arousing your man and turning him on using dirty talk is pretty easy. You simply need to tell him what you like about him and what you want to do with him in a sexual way. So you could try using one of these dirty talk examples.
I love your ass!
It’s so hot when you look at me like that!
I want you right now.
I want to feel you inside me.
DIRTY TALK TO MAKE HIM THINK ABOUT YOU
Talking dirty to make your man constantly think about you is the most powerful way to talk dirty. If you do it right, you will almost have a stalker on your hands! The key to using dirty talk to make him constantly think about you is to be subtle, cryptic and not that sexual. When you are subtle, cryptic and not super sexual with your dirty talk, your man’s mind will go into overdrive trying to figure out what you mean. Here are some examples to show you what I mean:
I woke up thinking about you last night.
There’s this one really awesome thing I like about you. But if I tell you what it is, you’ll stop doing it.
I don’t know why, but you make me feel so girly & feminine when I’m around you.
All of these dirty talk examples are very indirect and not super sexual sounding. They are also compliments which men love hearing. So you are massaging his ego while at the same time saying something that will get his mind wondering about what you meant (which will keep him thinking about you). So when you say, “I woke up thinking about you last night”, your man will be wondering what exactly you were thinking about. Was it a hot, sexy dream? Or was it because you were lonely and longing for him? Or was it a nightmare? When you are not direct and obvious with your dirty talk, you can get your man thinking about you for a long time using just a sentence or two.