Thanks for all the tips and advice from your emails and also in your blog. I always read it and am happy with your help. But I still can’t get rid of this problem till now.
1st of all,I’m an Asian girl who is going out with Caucasian/White American guy. We both are happy with each other when comes in bed. But I notice there is sometimes when I can’t really fulfill what he wants when comes to ‘Talking Dirty’. He often tells me to talk dirty to him to turn him on, and yes I did, but the problem is, I often lost idea what to say about talking dirty when we both in bed (it is such an IMPORTANT and BIG THING for him in bed).
Susan [name changed]
Thanks for your email.
I often get emailed with a question similar to yours, so let me answer it now and hopefully it will help others who have similar questions.
You want to talk dirty to him, but you don’t know what to say.
Thankfully the solution is really easy!
But after reading these examples, you may feel overwhelmed. You may feel that there are so many examples that you don’t know where to start.
LET ME GIVE YOU A QUICK AND SIMPLE ROADMAP FOR LEARNING HOW TO TALK DIRTY
Start with small chunks.
Take 1 or 2 phrases that you would be comfortable with saying, practice them a few times to yourself to remember them and then forget about the rest.
Only 1 or 2, no more.
If you try to remember 20, your brain will freeze in the moment.
Now try using these phrases on your man the next time you’re together.
They don’t need to be wild or crazy. It’s just a starting point.
So they could be something like:
I love seeing how hard I make you.
Keep fucking me like that.
Just like that!
I love being your little slut.
If you like they can even be tamer than these examples.
The key is to start with just 1 or 2, not 20!
Once you feel comfortable using these 1 or 2 examples and you have thoroughly memorised them, it’s time to add in another 1 or 2 to your repertoire.
Then when you are comfortable with these extra phrases, add another 1 or 2. And so on…
The idea is to divide your learning up into small chunks, just as you would when studying or learning a new language.
You can’t do it all at once.
A really simple way to talk dirty to your man is by using it as encouragement during sex.
You don’t need to say much, just some simple phrases:
I love it like that!
To Better Lovemaking,
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