Has your man recently asked you to pay more attention to his balls? Maybe you’re just looking for a new technique to add to your repertoire. Look no further than sucking balls, and if you don’t know where to start, just keep reading.
Isn’t Ball Sucking Just Teabagging?
When you’re going down on his man, you probably pay a lot of attention to his penis – the shaft and head. These are sensitive parts that are worthy of your attentions, but they’re certainly not the only part of your man’s body that is sensitive. Many women forget – or avoid – to stimulate his balls at all. But sucking balls and other types of testicle stimulation can feel great, and you’ll feel awesome knowing how well you’ve treated your man.
Ball sucking gets a bad rap! There are people who refer to sucking balls as “teabagging,” especially when a man kneels over another person and dips his balls into someone’s face. Of course, it sounds a little unappetizing when described like that, but your partner should respect your desires before starting any activity (which is exactly why surprise anal is a no-no!).
But as an activity that you both want to try, ball sucking can be fun and pleasurable.
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Why You Should Suck His Balls
Let’s start with why we think it’s so important to suck your man’s balls. They’re sensitive. In fact, testicles form in the womb just like your labia does. These two body parts of analogous but still so different.
You can see evidence of this in the “seam” that runs down the middle of his ball sac just like your labia are roughly symmetrical. This seam where his skin gathers is known as the raphe, and it’s especially sensitive. The raphe feels a little “tighter” than the rest of the sac, which is condensed and wrinkly. You can actually stretch out the ball sac a bit; although, we advise you to proceed with caution.
Being able to stretch the ball sac is crucial to using a cock ring or similar device, including a ball stretcher. Learn more about what cock rings do and how to use them in this post.
Men also have a pair of testicles within the sac. They typically sit on either side of the raphe, but they can be moved around the sac gently. This enables you to suck one or both balls into your mouth when you’re sucking on his balls, and you can push them to the side with your tongue.
His balls will pull closer to his body when he’s cold or close to orgasm and pull away when it’s warm out. Aren’t testicles interesting?
In fact, balls move in such a unique way that many of our readers at the Bad Girls Bible find it fun just to see how they can manipulate them. Your man is unlikely to complain as long as you’re gentle about the whole thing.
Another perk? If you suck his balls, he might be more likely to go down on you or try something that you like in the bedroom.
Sucking Balls 101
So how do you get started? Get on your knees when you’re stroking him, and you can easily dip your head to suck on his balls. Keep one hand around his shaft with your thumb pressed against the frenulum, the sensitive tendon-like flesh on the underside of the head of his cock. This is another sensitive spot that deserves lots of attention.
You can lick the raphe from top to bottom and gently suck his ballsac into your mouth. Some men like a little nibbling and some even like when you scratch their balls lightly, but you should be extra careful with his skin and make sure to get his feedback. You can manipulate his balls, but they’re still pretty sensitive.
When you’re ready, open your mouth wider to take a testicle into your mouth. Use your tongue to help guide it into place if you need to. Suck gently as you stroke him and run your tongue around his sac. Try humming and see how your man responds to it. It’s sexier than it sounds in writing!
You can add his second testicle if you feel comfortable doing it, but it’s not essential. Even sucking on a single ball can feel great, and your mouth might not be big enough to take both. That’s perfectly okay.
When you’re done sucking his balls, you can slowly pull your head away, tugging on his ballsac with your lips if that’s something he likes. Extend your tongue and lick up the underside of his shaft to continue blowing him. Or you can continue to lick right up his body to kiss him or get into position for penetrative sex.
It’s Not Just About Sucking Balls
Another option is to lick further down toward his asshole and to give him a good rim job. The anus is especially sensitive and is the porthole to another spot in your man’s body that’s especially sensitive: his prostate. Although you may not be able to stimulate his prostate directly with your tongue, it’s still worth checking out. Plus, you can press in through his perineum, the area of skin between his balls and asshole sometimes known as his “taint,” to stimulate his prostate indirectly.
Related: Tips for the Perfect Prostate Massage!
One thing you can do is use a prostate toy on your man while you’re sucking his balls or cock. Prostate toys are specially designed to stimulate the prostate, sometimes both internally and externally. They may vibrate or not, but all prostate toys should have a handle or flared base that prevents them from slipping inside and getting lost, which can lead to an embarrassing trip to the emergency room!
Don’t forget to listen to our podcast episode about prostate massage!
We’d be remiss if we didn’t mention how good licking can feel, too. You can lick around his sac, lightly stretch the skin, prod at his balls inside the sac with your tongue and more.
Stretching the skin allows you to pull it up toward the shaft a bit. You can actually stroke him a bit through the excess skin if it stretches enough. Plus, you can stroke and tug his balls downward with this loose skin. You can also cup his balls with your hand even if you’re not currently sucking them.
If you’re feeling especially cute, why not give each of his balls or his raphe a kiss?
Another technique that proves effective is using your breath. Purse your mouth to breathe out a stream of cold breath or hold your mouth open wider to exhale warm breath on your man’s balls – or anywhere on his body, really!
What If You Don’t Want to Suck His Balls?
You might skip sucking balls because it’s a little gross. Ask your man to shower before you go down on him or, better yet, shower together. As you lather him up, rub your hands over his balls and use the techniques we discussed above. Think of it like a preshow, one that we’re sure he’ll love!
Another issue that prevents some women from sucking on balls is the issue of hair. Yes, you’ll live if you get a pube stuck between your teeth, even if it’s not so pleasant. But you can also ask your man if he’ll shave or trim to help make the whole thing more enjoyable. When he asks “Why?”, just tell him that you want to suck his balls.
As we suggested above, you can turn it into a sexy activity by hopping in the shower and helping him shave. Most men don’t have as much experience shaving their bodies as you ladies do, however. But if he’s not into it, don’t push it. Shaving your most intimate parts is an activity that many people prefer to do alone.
Finally, you can make the whole thing more pleasant by using a flavored lube.
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Whatever you do, you want to have a good attitude. Enthusiasm goes a long way when it comes to sex. Even if you don’t have perfect technique, showing that you’re up to try new things and dedicated to pleasing your man can set him over the edge. So make eye contact and moan softly as you’re ball sucking, and your man will definitely appreciate it!
Although you might not be sure what to do with your man’s balls or the whole idea might seem a little weird, it’s worth giving it at least a second thought. Most men enjoy having their balls sucked, and yours is sure to appreciate the effort. Plus, who doesn’t love to drive their man wild? Now that you know how to suck balls, you’re good to go!