I talk a lot about different sex games that you can use to keep your sex life fun and varied, but today I want to show you my absolute best sex games that you can play with your man.
Note: Just because these are my best sex games, it doesn’t mean that you absolutely have to play them in order to have the ‘best’ sex. At the end of the day, they’re just suggestions and ideas to inform you of what the possibilities are. So scan through them and choose the ones you like most.
Here we go…
- MAID TO PLEASE
The sexier you look for him, the better!
Maid to please is one of my best sex games for when you want to treat your man and do all the work, allowing him to pretty much just sit back and enjoy it. In case you haven’t already guessed from the name, you are going to be dressing up as a maid for your man.
You don’t have to go out and buy a maids costume or even a ‘sexy’ halloween maids costume, but you should be wearing something sexy that accents your best features in a slightly submissive way. Clothes that come to mind are lingerie, a short & revealing skirt or even a pair of sexy high heels.
Rather than discussing this game with your man first, it’s better to surprise him with it ESPECIALLY when you both have a few hours alone.
So perhaps your man is planning on taking it easy on the couch next weekend? Or maybe in a few weeks you will both have the day off work and can just lounge around in bed all morning? Whenever it is, it’s best to do a little planning first.
You are going to obviously need to know what you are going to wear. But as well as this you should have a small treat prepared for your man, if it’s practicable to do so. It could be a cold beer or a snack or even something herbal (wink, wink). It shouldn’t be too big like a meal as you don’t want to be slaving away all day in the kitchen!
Next get changed into your sexy costume and then surprise your man. When surprising him it’s best to make sure he can’t guess what’s up beforehand so that it really is a surprise. After surprising him you are then going to perform his favorite sexual technique on him. It could be giving him oral sex, giving him a hand job, massaging him, some passionate kissing and then afterwards moving on to his favorite sex positions.
Maid To Please is without a doubt the easiest of all these best sex games to perform on your guy. But don’t let that fool you into thinking that it’s not effective. It’s an incredibly powerful way to show your man how much you care about him and that you are serious about his pleasure.
You can use Maid To Please throughout your relationship to keep reminding him of why he’s in a relationship with you…but if you use it too often then it will lose it’s effectiveness.
It’s like adding a spice to a dish. Just because a little bit is good, it’s doesn’t mean that a lot is better.
- SMART STRIPPING
Strip poker is certainly a barrel of fun, but often you’ll find that your man knows how to play poker a little too well. In other words strip poker isn’t always the best sex game if you don’t have equal skills at card playing.
A great way to make it much more even is to use general knowledge instead of poker to decide who has to strip.
So basically you are making strip poker a whole lot fairer and the smarter person gets to keep their clothes on. Rather than making up the questions yourselves, it’s a lot easier to look online or even to use existing questions from a board game like Trivial Pursuit.
To play, you are going to start by asking your man a question first. If he gets it right then he has 2 choices:
- He can ask you to remove a piece of clothing.
- He can put a piece of his clothing back on.
If he gets the question wrong then he only has one choice:
- He must remove a piece of his clothing.
Playing smart stripping is way more fun when you’ve both had a few drinks and you’re all loosened up.
But if you are both totally sober and have just recently started dating, then most likely you are going to find it a bit awkward.
You’ll also find that it’s way more fun if he chooses questions to ask you based on your favorite TV show and you do the same to him.
- MONTH O’ SEXINESS
Month O’ Sexiness is similar in a lot of ways to building your own sex bucket list and is one of the best sex games for exploring things that you might both enjoy. The big difference is that you are going to cram in 30 or 31 days of sexy adventures with your man. Of course there may be a few days during the month where certain things aren’t practical, so don’t worry if you need to taking are few days off during the month.
So what things should you include in your Month O’ Sexiness?
Others want to use it to improve their blow job skills. Again, you’ll find a massive section with tips to improve your blow job skills here, whether it’s just trying out some new tips or it’s learning new blow job positions to use when giving your man a blow job.
Most people though want to use a combination of things that both partners will enjoy.
One mistake that people make when playing Month O’ Sexiness is that they forget to actually make an actual list of things that they want to do, they just do it mentally. Let me tell you something:
Having a list that you ‘cross out’ or ‘tick off’ makes this sex game a whole lot more fun and real. It’s also great for build sexual tension as you get to anticipate different experiences, positions or techniques.
- JUST SEXUAL TENSION
Speaking of sexual tension…
There is far more to sex than just a physical component. Don’t ever forget about mentally turning your man on too. This is arguably far more important than the physical part of sex. The easiest way to mentally turn your man on is by building up sexual tension to the point where your man would almost break down the door to your bedroom in order to have sex with you.
This is literally the most powerful and best sex game that you can play with your man in order to have more fulfilling sex. It’s also one that you can play without your knowing much about it. So…you’re probably wondering how to build sexual tension with your man.
Remember when you were a kid, right before Christmas. You felt like it couldn’t come soon enough. You may have been counting down the days in your head or you may have even physically crossed them off on a calander. Not matter what you did you couldn’t get Christmas day and the joy of opening your presents out of your head.
This build up made Christmas day all the more magical, exciting and special. You need to use this principal with your man. You need to create anticipation and a build up to certain sexual things. This will actually make your man enjoy them much, much more when he does eventually get to experience them.
So instead of just giving him a blow job every single night, why not create more of a build up. Send him a text the morning before you see him. Say something like,
Can’t wait to get home later and give you an oral surprise!
Then after lunch send another,
Can’t wait to taste you later.
When you do eventually see him in the evening, he should be trembling in anticipation.
You can even build anticipation up over weeks, not just days.
Don’t Make Everyday Christmas Day – Imagine if you celebrated Christmas day every single day with your family. It would grow boring very quickly and soon you wouldn’t attach much importance to it because it happens all too often. Think about this when incorporating different techniques into your sexual repertoire.
If you use ‘that one special technique’ every single night on your man, then he won’t value it that much. But if you slowly tease him about it and slowly build up to it, then it will feel much more like a special occasion that he gets to anticipate for days beforehand.
It’s What You Say – What you say to your man plays a big role when it comes to creating sexual tension. Whispering something dirty in his ear before saying goodbye to him is great for this or even sending him a dirty text message with your plans for later.
- PORN FOR 2
Pornography gets a bad rap. Sure it’s staged, using male actors with ridiculously large penises and female actors that usually have had some form of plastic surgery. But there is still a lot you can get out of it. In fact one of the best sex games I know involves using porn.
Now I’m not talking about making your own porno! No, I’m talking about using porn to actually enhance your sex life.
You’ll need a laptop and a man that is comfortable with watching porn with you. Set up the laptop next to your bed or even on it and go to your favorite porn site. Next you need to choose a type of porn that YOU really enjoy and click ‘Play’. Now it’s your man’s job to start caressing, massaging and fingering you to try and get you off, while you just relax and get lost in what you’re watching. If he wants, he can even start eating you out.
Then when you’ve had enough pleasure for yourself, it’s your turn to do the exact same thing for your man…Let him choose his favorite type of porno and then you are going to need to give him a hand job or if you like, you can go down on him and suck him off.
- THE (RE)SEDUCTION
The sad fact of life is that eventually the honeymoon period of any new relationship ends and your relationship eventually stops being as exciting as it used to be. It’s a bummer, but at the same time it’s almost always completely unavoidable. The best sex game I know to overcome it and at least relive the initial fun of a new relationship is what I like to call the (Re)seduction.
You can probably guess from the name that you are going to be seducing your man all over again, while he does the same to you. If you do it right, it can be really exciting. It works especially well if you don’t already live together.
Before you start playing, you and your man need to both be on the same page though. This is because it would be weird if you suddenly started acting really different with no real explanation to your man for this new behaviour.
If you like, you can start in a bar where you ‘meet for the first time’, flirt and exchange numbers, before kissing goodnight and then going your separate ways.
Then it’s time to start sending each other some flirty (& dirty) texts to set up your ‘first date’. Your ‘first date’ should be something like a normal first date…something like a drink or dinner or even just hanging out. Then afterwards, your man can ask you back to his place or if you like you can take him back to yours.
What’s really great about this sex game is that you can take things really slowly, building sexual tension like I explained earlier. So the first night you get intimate together, you can start with just kissing, then the second night could be finished off with a handjob, then on the third give him a blow job and then finally on the fourth night you could go ‘all the way’
So there you have it, 6 of my best sex games to play with your man to keep the spark and excitement alive in your relationship.